An Unforgettable Day in the Court of Appeals

I arrived at 8:45 a.m. for the 9:30 a.m. announcement of the appellate decision in the Ribbens legal guardianship appeal.  They had been denied legal guardianship at the trial court over sweet little 20-month-old Nya not because they were not perfectly fit parents (they are), and not because Nya is not an abandoned child (she is), but because the trial court judge interpreted Ugandan law not to permit legal guardianship by non-Ugandans unless the would-be legal guardians also complied with the adoption laws.  The adoption laws require non-Ugandans to foster parent the child in Uganda for three years before an adoption can be granted.  Many trial court judges have been granting applicants legal guardianship to skirt the adoption laws, and so a split had developed among the courts.  Today, the court of appeals resolved that split.

At about 9:15 a.m., Sara and Nya arrived with a friend and we all waited together . . . until 11:10, when the Registrar called them in for their ruling.  The Registrar read the entire opinion – about twenty pages – as we hung on every word.  Ugandan appellate decisions are very thorough, and unlike those in the United States, they don’t reveal how they are ruling until the very end.  As a rule, Ugandans speak very softly, and the Registrar did not violate this rule.  We strained to hear as he read the opinion, which began by thoroughly summarizing the trial court opinion.  It then summarized in detail the arguments made by counsel during the oral argument.  Next, the opinion summarized all of the relevant principals of law.  It then turned its attention to the factual record, describing each of the exhibits, affidavits, and findings of the welfare officers in both Uganda and the United States with respect to the fitness of the parents and the eligibility of Nya under Ugandan law based upon her status as an abandon child.  Surely, we are getting the result next?  We leaned forward, strained to hear with our hearts pounding and heard very clearly . . . a description of the points of error alleged by the Ribbens’ lawyer.  C’mon dude, we are on page 18, give us a hint – did the Ribbens prevail or not?

“We declare Andy and Sara Ribbens to be the legal guardians of Nya with the full right to take her to the United States” (or words to that effect).  Tears.  Lots of them.  Nya slept through the entire thing.

The opinion was unanimous.  And not only did the Ribbens win, but another couple whose case had been consolidated with theirs also prevailed.  And not only did that couple win, but all other would-be adoptive parents in Uganda won.  The brush is now clear for legal guardianships in Uganda.  This case created the precedent necessary to open the doors of the orphanages in Uganda so that hundreds (perhaps thousands) of these orphans will finally have families.

It was such a blessing to be able to be there when Sara called Andy and told him through her tears, “She is ours, she is finally ours.”  I filmed the phone call, but will leave it to Sara to share it if she chooses to do so.

Hopefully, the visa process will run smoothly and the Ribbens family can be united in the United States within the next couple of weeks.

It was a good day.  Thanks for your prayers and well wishes.

To read Sara’s post from her blog today, click here.

Henry’s National Exam Results

Today was a very significant day in the life of Henry, the Uganda boy I met during my first trip to Uganda.  Today, the national test results were released – Uganda’s version of the SAT.  Before getting to the results, here is a quick primer on the Ugandan school system:

Children start school in Uganda at around the age of six in what is called Nursery School, which is akin to our Kindergarten.  From there, they go to Primary School for seven years, commonly referred to as P1-P7.  A few years ago, Uganda passed legislation that purports to guarantee free public education for Primary School, though the legislation limited this to four children per family and most families have more than four kids.  Unfortunately, this doesn’t work as well as it was intended to work.  In the villages (half or more the country), a good percentage of the children don’t finish Primary School because (i) the family cannot afford the school supplies (not included in the “free” part), (ii) the family cannot afford for the kids not to be tending crops or animals, or (iii) the family doesn’t value education enough to send the kids to school.  In addition to these “free” government Primary Schools, there are quite a few private schools that a good portion of the population cannot afford.  The student/teacher ratio in Ugandan Government Primary Schools is 49/1, but this is much lower at the private schools.

At the end of P7, the children all take a national exam to determine which of them will graduate to Secondary School.  There are some scholarships available for government Secondary Schools, but most Ugandans have to pay to continue after Primary School.  Consequently, only 27% of Ugandan children make it through Primary School to Secondary School.  (By analogy, this would mean that only 27% of American kids make it to 8th grade).

Secondary School is broken into two parts.  The first four years are called “O” level (S1-S4), and the last two are called “A” level (S5-S6).  These designations mirror the British model.  At the end of “O” level (S4), the students all take a national exam to determine whether they will advance to “A” level.  That is the exam Henry was just finishing taking when I came to his graduation from S4 last November.  (I posted about his graduation here).

The results were released today (about ten days late) and Henry did fantastic.  The students take ten subject exams and get a score between 1 and 10 on each subject, with 1 being the best and 10 being the worst.  Of the ten scores, the highest 8 are totaled for what is called the “Aggregate Score.”  The best possible Aggregate Score is 8, which represents a 1 in each of the best 8 subjects.  The Aggregate Scores are then divided into four divisions, with the First Division being the best.  An Aggregate Score of 32 or lower qualifies as First Division, and this year, the cut off for the First Division was the top 8.5% of all takers.

Henry’s Aggregate Score was 18, which likely puts him in the top 2-4% of all takers.  I could not be more proud of him.  And this after spending two years in prison, not able to learn or even speak English during this time.  Here are his individual subject scores:

Agriculture – 1

Chemistry – 1

Divinity – 2

Physics – 2

English – 3

Geography – 3

History – 3

Mathematics – 3

Commerce – 3

Biology – 5

Within each subject, a score of 1 or 2 is categorized as “With Distinction.”  And the percentage of students who meet this “With Distinction” category varies by subject.  So, for example, only 0.6% of students made a 1 or 2 in Chemistry.  Accordingly, Henry’s score of 1 in Chemistry likely placed him in the top 0.3% of all Ugandans.  Similarly, only 1.5% of Ugandans scored a 1 or 2 in Physics, so Henry’s 2 in that subject put him in the top 1.5% of the country.

Henry’s career goal is to become a doctor.  After independent research and talking to as many people as possible, I have concluded that the best “A” level program in the country for those wanting to become doctors is at Uganda Martyrs Namugongo Secondary School.  (One of the two Ugandans currently enrolled at Pepperdine (George Kakuru) went to this Secondary School).

Being intimately familiar with the Parable of the Persistent Widow (Luke 18:1-8), I have decided to make Uganda Martyrs my second home until the final enrollment decisions have been made.  Accordingly, I camped out in front of the Head Teacher’s office yesterday until I was allowed to go in.  He was very friendly and professional, but told me that I needed to come back when the national results were released.  So, when they came out, I went back.  Unfortunately, he was out of the office, but I met with a couple others, including a current teacher.

The program into which Henry wants to be admitted (biological sciences) is the most competitive program at the most competitive school.  Yikes!  While the Aggregate score is very important (their presumptive cutoff for this program is 11 or 12), the scores on Chemistry, Physics, and Biology are the most important.  As noted above, Henry’s Chemistry and Physics scores are spectacular, but his Biology score falls about with the top 10-12% of Ugandans.  I fear that this will be an uphill battle, but will not give up easily.

In order to officially apply at this school, I need to have Henry’s birth certificate, baptismal certificate, and official test results (I got a summary of them via text message today).  His birth and baptismal certificates are in Hoima (five hours away) and his official results are in Gulu (six hours away).  The deadline to submit the application is Tuesday of next week, and the decisions will be made the following day or two.

Since there is no FedEx in Uganda, getting documents from Point A to Point B is rather, well, complicated.  Providentially, the Gashes and the Gregstons (our Twin Family) were already planning to go to Hoima this weekend for a “shopping spree” – more about that here.  Doubly providentially, John Niemeyer (Country Director for Restore International, the organization that runs the school from which Henry graduated) was planning to drive to Kampala from Gulu today, but fell ill.  Consequently, he is coming later in the week and will have the official results with him.  Accordingly, I should have everything I need in order to submit Henry’s application in person on Monday.  Henry and I would both appreciate your prayers.  Please pray that I will not have “occupy” the Head Teacher’s office until he finally admits Henry just to get rid of me.

Tomorrow I will post with the court of appeals’ decision in the Ribbens’ adoption case.

Appellate Briefs

As many of you know, I am involved to some degree in two appellate cases currently pending before the Ugandan Court of Appeals.  I have previously written about Henry’s case and that of Sara and Andy Ribbens.

With respect to the first case, Henry is a boy I first met during my initial visit to Uganda in January of 2010.  I have seen Henry each of my five prior visits to Uganda and we have grown rather attached to each other.  The appellate argument was originally supposed to take place in September, but was postponed to November, then to February, and now it appears that it will happen in April.

The reason for the postponements is that under the Ugandan Constitution, petitions related to national elections must take precedence over all other court work.  And since Uganda had its national elections in February of 2011, the appellate courts are now being hit with the appeals.  On the positive side of the ledger, I have been assured that my practising (that’s how they spell it here) certificate should be issued tomorrow, which will officially allow me to be appear in court on behalf of Henry.

With respect to the second case, my role has been rather limited – helping them get a hearing date and doing legal research and writing in advance of the oral argument.  I first met Sara and Andy in November when I was last here, and their story captured my heart and attention.  They have been here in Uganda for just under a year waiting for their family to be officially completed.  This past week, I was pleased to be able to introduce my family to Sara and their three kids when they came over for lunch (Andy had to fly home last week to resume work to support the family).  Sara and Andy have one biological son, one adopted Ugandan son, and one Ugandan daughter they are in the process of trying to adopt.  They were denied the adoption of the girl at the trial level and had the oral argument on their appeal in mid-December.

Sara with Bauer, Nya, and Owen

Jessica holding Nya during her afternoon nap

Earlier today, Sara received word that the decision in the appellate case will be announced on Thursday morning.  Please pray fervently for a positive ruling and for the strength and endurance to persevere if the ruling is adverse.  I will post an update on the ruling on Thursday.

Children of Kangulumira

Yesterday, on our way back from Jinja, we stopped to get pineapples and jackfruit, which is a green spiky fruit, about the size of a watermelon. It tastes kind of like bad, old banana candy and has the consistency of a stringy, chewy pineapple. I, personally, think it’s disgusting, but some people like it.

Jackfruit

When we stopped our bus to buy the pineapple and jackfruit from some guys by the side of the road, I never expected to feel that God was there with us, watching over those kids. In my last post, I talked about praying for the children like the ones I met yesterday.

Some were malnourished, which made their stomachs extremely bloated. These children weren’t like the ones I was used to seeing in the city. Instead of saying the usual, “Mzungu! Give me money!” they just wanted to be with us. Before l knew it, I was out of the bus, by the side
of the road, and standing right with the kids. Some of them were so shy they would just wave and giggle, but others were brave enough to take a picture with us. I’d never seen a child so giddy to see their little face on a camera screen. Even though all I said to the children was, “How are you?”, Or if they looked older, I would ask, “What is your name?” I felt truly blessed, just being with them. There was one girl, who looked about seven or eight, and I asked her how she was, and instead of saying, “I am fine”, she simply giggled at me. She seemed to be with this little boy, sort of protecting him, but maybe that was just her instinct because, after all, there were Mzungus around. The little boy was wearing overalls, and was carrying a beautiful bright yellow flower. After a few pictures, Jessica asked him what his name was. The first time she asked him, he said nothing, and his older “sister” giggled.

When Jessica asked him the second time, he said “Da”. “Da” was one of the children I felt most attached to. I don’t think I had ever wanted to adopt a child that I didn’t even know the name of before. Some of you know that feeling. The feeling that you just absolutely have to do something. I felt that way about “Da”. If I close my eyes, I can see his adorable face, half afraid of the Mzungu that was hugging him, and half overjoyed that his
face was on the camera screen.  This may seem kind of weird, but before I left, I kissed his little head. That little boy touched my heart, and changed my life.

Below are some pictures and I hope you see the love of the Lord in those children’s faces. If I could repeat one moment of my life, it would most certainly be the moment I met “Da”. Thank you. Enjoy the pictures!

Jessica, Jayne, and me with children. Do you see "Da" with his flower?

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Me and the children of Kangulumira

 

 

 

 

 

 

Homecoming

At 10:00 p.m. on Friday the 27th, our plane touched down in Entebbe.  We went through customs, looking for the person we were told to meet in the airport.  Finally, we found him and he helped up with our ten suitcases.  Exhausted, we were taken to a VIP lounge where we met Margaret.  She had visited Pepperdine a few months ago with some Ugandan Justices.  We were greeted warmly and shown to some cars.  Our luggage was put in a van, and we piled into a smaller car.  We then started the near two hour journey to Royal Suites Bugolobi.  The only words I can use to describe how I felt are ‘culture shock’.  Everything is so different in Uganda.  At night, the city is still lit up and full of music.  I don’t mean that people were using instruments; they were using radios and stereos.  It smelled like burning wood constantly, and there were some piles of burning garbage.  Though Uganda is nearly the opposite of America; for the first time, I am home.

The Source . . . and the Destination

On Sunday morning, we got up early enough to attend the 8:00 a.m. worship service at Watoto Church, and then headed to Jinja for the day.  While Jinja is the seventh most populace city in Uganda, it is the second largest commercial area.  Its attraction, however, is neither its population nor its commerce, but rather its role as the source of the longest river in the world.

We journeyed the two hours due west of Kampala in a mini-bus arranged by one of our Oklahoma friends (Steve) who is visiting Uganda for two weeks.  We were joined by our twin family (the Gregstons) and a visiting missionary from Cambodia.  What the mini-bus lacked in air conditioning, it made up for in airflow through the open windows as we traveled around 50 mph for much of the way.  Our decision to go on Sunday was a good one, as the traffic on Ugandan roads on Sunday is about ¼ as heavy as on the other six days of the week – most Ugandans walk to church and then spend most of the day at home or in local markets.

When we arrived in Jinja, we puttered out on a small boat to an island where we were able to stand within feet of where Lake Victoria (fourth biggest lake in the world) releases a torrent of water from its northern tip, forming the River Nile.  From this source, the water makes the 4100-mile journey through ten countries – Uganda, Burundi, DRC, Ethiopia, Kenya, Rwanda, South Sudan, Sudan, Tanzania, and finally Egypt as it empties into the Mediterranean Sea.  This journey north – one of the few major rivers in the world that runs north – takes three months.

On the River Nile

Gash Family at the Source of the Nile

Gazing north from the source toward Egypt brought to mind all of the historical references in the Bible to the Nile.  In particular, we thought of Moses being placed in a basket in the Nile and set adrift.  The fact that Moses survived long enough to be fished out of the river by Pharaoh’s daughter suggests that (i) the Nile moves more slowly in Egypt than in Uganda, (ii) the basket in which Moses rode was akin to a rain barrel, or (iii) that God’s hand of protection supernaturally delivered Moses to his ultimate destination.  I’m going with (iii).

Today’s adventure also reminded us not only of the Source of what we hope to accomplish in Africa, but it also reminded us of our long-term Destination.  It is not often that the Source and the Destination are one in the same.

First, Not Always Better Than Last

It doesn’t take particularly good vision to see the undertaker’s gravedigger busily excavating a place for the American newspaper business in the graveyard of history next to the plots occupied by the payphone, the VCR, and the 8-track player.  Modern technological advances assure that change is the only thing constant in this world.  At least in most of this world.

Unfortunately, Uganda has proven quite resistant to “modern technological advances” in many ways.  For example, shortages of financial resources and training have prevented almost all Ugandan courts from having any form of contemporaneous recording of court proceedings.  The trial “transcript” consists solely of the judge’s handwritten summaries of the witnesses’ testimony.  The only not-so-modern-technological-advance in recent years came when one courthouse in America donated a small handful of cassette-tape recorders that are being used by a few judges in one division.

Because relatively few Ugandans have access to the internet, much less a smartphone with web access, Ugandans depend almost entirely on daily newspapers for their news.  And most Ugandans (at least the portion of the population that is literate) read the paper every day.  Monkey see, monkey do.  Trying to blend in, I, the monkey, have undertaken to read the paper every day here.  But this actually means reading two papers because there are two competing daily newspapers here, and one really needs to read both in order to get the whole picture.

The New Vision is the official government newspaper.  It is not simply pro-government, it is government.  The second is the Daily Monitor.  This paper is privately owned and produced and doesn’t pull many punches.  About half of the stories each day overlap as both seek to keep the readers informed of current events, but the editorials and investigative journalism stories are quite different.

Earlier this week, both papers ran similar stories about Uganda’s #1 world ranking.  Usually, it is good to be ranked number #1 in the world.  In fact, I posted previously about Uganda’s recent ranking as the #1 tourist destination in the world.  But in the World Health Organization’s recent ranking, (as in the kingdom of heaven), being last (rather than first) would have been much preferred.  Uganda’s 478 annual cases of malaria per 1,000 people place it at the very top of this world list.  While this doesn’t necessarily mean that exactly 47.8% of Ugandans contract malaria each year (some may get it more than once), it does mean that something just short of half of Ugandans do get it each year.  A few more alarming statistics: malaria is responsible for 40% of all visits to the doctor, 25% of all hospitalizations, and 14% of all hospital deaths in Uganda.  Somewhere between 70,000 and 100,000 Ugandan children die from malaria each year.

As most people who are reading this know, malaria is a parasite that is spread by mosquitos from person to another when they bite.  But only one certain type of mosquito (Anopheles) carries malaria, and that type of mosquito is active mostly at night.

Malaria Mosquito

This is why the Gates Foundation and many other charitable organizations have invested so much in mosquito nets under which people can sleep to avoid getting bitten.  This is also why the Gash family sleeps under mosquito nets.  The parasites enter the blood stream, travel to the liver, then reproduce and infect the red blood cells.

Malaria is a treatable disease when it is diagnosed and medications are administered within the first few days of the symptoms appearing.  Among the symptoms are anemia, bloody stools (yikes), chills, coma, convulsion, fever, vomiting, etc.  The disease manifests itself about 10-14 days after the bite.  If left untreated, the victims can look forward to brain infections, kidney failure, liver failure, respiratory failure, and ultimately a meeting with the Maker.  If properly treated with large doses of anti-malarials, the victim can feel better within two or three days.  While malaria has been basically eradicated in the United States, there are a still a number of people traveling to the United States each year who die from malaria because doctors assume that the patient simply has the flu.

Malaria can largely be avoided by taking regular small doses of anti-malarials in advance of contracting the parasite.  The Gashes are taking the daily kind (Doxycycline), which is an anti-biotic that is often used in the United States to help control acne in teenagers – a nice side benefit that makes me positively glow.  While taking Doxy for six months is pushing the recommended time limits because of the slight risk of liver damage from prolonged use, we are determined as a family not to add to the already world-leading cases of malaria in Uganda.

On brighter note, my computer has almost entirely completed its Lazarus-type resurrection and for that I am quite thankful to Pepperdine’s IT folks.  I also had a productive week of meetings and look forward to an even more full calendar this next week.  More on the specific juvenile justice work as things unfold.

The most exciting news of the week, however, is that our Twin Family arrived safely on Friday night and is now living in the apartment directly below us.

Pray for them

Pray for them. Pray for the children. Pray the precious souls who have been suffering will find comfort in the Lord. Who have been waiting in an orphanage for someone to save them. The children who don’t know what it’s like to feel loved or appreciated, or even wanted. Who have been forced to beg at car windows because their parents weren’t able to find work. The children who are starving, because they live alone, and have never known what it’s like to be healthy. Who are beaten, and abused, because their parents never wanted them. Pray that they will learn of God’s promise, his forgiveness, and his never ending love. Pray for the babies, who are unborn, but still suffering because their mothers are unhealthy. Who won’t be able to learn of God, because there’s no church in the streets that are dirty and unfit for an animal to live in, let alone a human. The babies who will be fed dirt, and not know that it is not nutritious, or beneficial to their growing bodies.

I pray that you will take this to heart, and you may notice some of these things, even in America. I hope that this encourages you to go and serve, just like my family is. Thank you.

Corrupted . . . Restored

After a full day of running various magical retrieval-of-lost-computer-files programs on Wednesday in an attempt to retrieve all of my data files that had been accidentally deleted by his colleague, the Ugandan court IT wizard informed me that he had some good news and some bad news.  Some sayings are apparently universal.

The good news was that he had been able to get back all of the files.  Excellent.  I would have hugged him then and there had the “bad news” not been lurking in the background.  What could the bad news possibly be?

“Almost all of the files are corrupted.”

“Almost?  Which files are not corrupted?”

“The pictures.”

“While a picture is worth a thousand words, I need a different thousand words – the ones I typed into my data files.”  Blank stare.  Apparently not all sayings are universal.

He then asked me if Pepperdine’s IT guys had any software that could uncorrupt data files.  Beats me.  I didn’t even know data files could be “corrupted.”  So I called the Pepperdine IT guy.  He told me that he had a high degree of confidence that if my hard drive could be sent to a specialist in the United States, the files could be uncorrupted.  Hmm, good to know, but not exactly practical.  We then decided that it was time for Plan B.

Plan B was to endeavor to remotely retrieve the files through the outside-vendor-online-backup-system Pepperdine utilizes to see what could be extracted and how quickly.  With the Ugandan IT guy at my elbow on Thursday morning, we connected with this backup system and started fiddling with it.  And yes, the notion of the blind leading the visually impaired does come to mind.

Turns out that this should have been Plan A.  Even I was able to navigate it, and the Ugandan IT guy thought it was sliced bread.

Within a couple hours, I was able to retrieve the relatively small number of files that I needed immediately and was able to gain a high degree of confidence that the vast majority of the others were accessible.  Since the backup system backs up files periodically, I think I may have lost a few days’ worth of work, at most.  And since I was traveling during most of that time, I lost nothing that couldn’t be quickly replicated.

I am a happy dude.

So, why didn’t I retrieve all of my files from the backup system on Thursday?  Because I am a cheapskate and an idiot, which is what got me into this trouble in the first place.  A little background about the Ugandan internet.

The internet in Uganda is both difficult to come by and slow.  Unlike in the United States, most Ugandans don’t have computers.  This is true for a variety of reasons, not the least of which is that most Ugandans don’t have electricity.  Consequently, wired networks are in short supply, and wireless networks are in shorter supply.  But everyone has cell phones (often two or three of them on different networks because calls within networks are cheaper), so the cell phone networks are broad-based, pretty reliable, and relatively fast.  As a result, internet sticks (USB devices that connect to the internet through the phone networks) are rapidly growing in popularity (with those who have computers) and are much faster than any other internet connection available.  This brings me to my cheapskatism and idiocy.

Since we have both wired and wireless internet access at the apartment, and since the court has a wired connection at the office, I was seriously considering not getting an internet stick in order to save some money.  If I just would have sucked it up and got “on the stick” right when I got here, then I never would have asked to connect to the court’s tortoise-speed wired system in the first place, and, thus, never would have handed my laptop off to the grim reaper of data files.  The monthly plans for the sticks come in various increments, with the all-you-can eat variety costing about $120 per month.  When all of this nonsense started, I broke down and got a stick, but again revealed my utter lack of intelligence by balking at the $120 price, opting instead for a $65 per month plan for 10GB of data per month.  I am such an idiot.

Today, when I finally got the ability to download my files, I discovered that I had 25GB of files.  So, in order to download them, it would cost me 2 ½ months’ worth of internet data and prevent me from using the stick for accessing the internet for other things.  Oh, and also, downloading 25GB of data files would likely take about a week of constant downloading.  So that is why I only downloaded the files I needed immediately.

All in all, I am quite relieved even though I learned a valuable lesson in being penny wise and shilling foolish.  Thanks for the many prayers and e-mails I have received wishing me luck with this.  Tomorrow I am finally getting to meet with several very important people relating to my work this next six months.

Hacked . . . Off!

Hacked. That is what happened to my email account. And that is what hacked me off!

I woke up this morning in Uganda to several email messages from friends and family, asking if I had sent them an email – the only contents of which was some random link – and wondering if they should open it. No, do not open it! One friend did open it and the link connected them to a site about some mom working from home, making lots of money. When my friend tried to close the site, it would not close, so she had to restart her computer. No harm, no foul, but very annoying.

In an attempt to prevent this from happening to my other friends and family, I decided to send a general message of warning to all my contacts. Easier said than done. Hotmail would only allow me to send messages to one page of contacts at a time. This shouldn’t take long – I only have 28 pages of contacts! Really, in the U.S. this would not have taken long. But today in Uganda the internet was very slow – it is slow everyday! So it was taking about five minutes per page of contacts. After I was halfway done with this project, I got hungry and decided I should eat breakfast. When I returned to the computer, my internet connection had been lost, so I had to sign back in to my hotmail account. But no, my account had been shut down by hotmail because . . . it might have been hacked. Really? I didn’t know that! At that point, I wasn’t sure if hotmail finally realized someone hacked into my account or if they thought I was the hacker since I had been sending out mass emails all morning to all my contacts. Hmm?

So, I thought I could just get my account re-opened and change my password. Easier said than done. When I attempted to do this, hotmail said they needed to send me a temporary password to a mobile number. First, I needed to select the country in which I was located and give them the number. No problem, I thought, because I actually have a Ugandan mobile phone. So, I searched the drop down menu and guess what? Uganda is not on the list! Really? But, hotmail provided another alternative –just answer some personal questions and give them a different email address and they would email a temporary password to me once they verified my information. But, it might take about 24 hours to do so. Fantastic!

About an hour later, I got a nice surprise from hotmail . . . they helped me sooner than expected, so my hotmail account is back (with a new password!). More surprises . . . when I went back to my account, I had several messages waiting for me from friends who received the general message I had sent out. Some of these friends were people I had not had contact with for years, so it was nice to reconnect. So, I guess I should say “thank you” to the hacker for causing me to email old friends that were in my contact list!

This experience brought to mind an email we received last night from a friend who had previously spent a year working in Uganda. He said that we might be frustrated at times with the difficulties of living in Africa, but we should not be discouraged. He told us that when he was facing challenges here, he would try not to feel sorry for himself and would remember that what he was dealing with paled in comparison to what the average Ugandan was dealing with. His experience in Uganda taught him to be more patient and to learn how to deal with challenges. This is well-timed and well-appreciated advice.

Living in Uganda is already teaching me to be more patient. The problem I am having with my email account is really silly compared to the suffering I see around me. Besides, this problem could have happened anywhere I was living. But I am living here in Uganda now. I should be grateful that I am living in a place with electricity (even if it goes off and on a few times a day!), running water, and mosquito nets. I should be grateful for all the amazing things we will see and do. I should be grateful for the ways God will use us. Why am I complaining?